Dwelling on the negative contributes to its power.
-Shirley MacLaine
Avoid the company of people who talk or gossip too much and that too about people around and even closer to themselves.
Their entire motto and mission is to know what you are up to and to check whether you are still inferior or not.
They actually are themselves disturbed and this very tendency of theirs declares that they are actually coming to you to unload their habits of gossiping.
So, don’t even feel that you are helping them by listening them because they can’t help it. They will find somebody else to unburden yourself.
You are just a media for them and not an important being, at all.
Just be there in your real and neutral being while encountering such people.
While you can’t control someone’s negative behavior, you can control how long would you participate in it
Such people have their own class and that’s their own self. And also, that’s the best class of a being. They don’t listen to their critics and they don’t give it a second thought even when told to do so.
The most precious thing they own is their own thought processes.
These people are brutally negative and they propagate their habits faster than anyone else.
So, the choice is yours.
They reply late and they are cool but if you reply faster, you are taken for granted.
So, just be within your own self and be clear of what you want. Whether you want to be among such people and lose yourself or vice versa.
